Many victims of domestic violence, the following questions about quitting.
¿I can bring my children with me when I leave?
Yes, if you can do so safely, without any doubt take your children with you. Itmay be harder later.
Obtain legal custody of them in a few days. This is very important. Most groups listed in this book can help you find help.
If you do not have your children with you, it can be difficult when thetemporary custody of their children. The parent who has physical possession of the children may have an advantage getting temporary custody.
Your partner may try to remove, threaten or harm the children to return.
If you are in immediate danger and can not take your children, contact the police immediately to arrange temporary protective custody. (This doesnot mean you will lose custody. Permanent custody will be decided later by a judge.)
Where can I go?
Stay with a friend or relatives.
If you are a woman, not to stay with a man unless he is a parent. (Living with an unmarried man could hurt your chances of getting custody of theirchildren and spouse. It could also cause a conflict with your abuser.)
Go to a shelter for battered women and their children. The staff can help you get help as well as legal and financial advice and emotional support for you and your children.
Or call 911 because it is a good start.
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